Quote (aidanobsidian @ Nov 15 2022 03:32pm)
By affirming and supporting gender reassignment surgeries/transitions we are also re-entrenching traditional gender roles.
You can be a fem man and have long hair, wear jewelry or makeup, etc.
You can be a masc woman and have a buzz cut, powerlift, and never wear makeup, etc.
Instead of normalizing self expression throughout a multitude of possible avenues and promoting cultural/societal acceptance (for “both” sexes) we have instead normalized transitioning to the other sex to become more aligned with the individual’s expressed traits in accordance to gendered stereotypes held by the prevailing society. (Two spirit seems to acknowledge this conundrum)
***overall I believe that bodily autonomy should be granted to every individual...I don’t understand why people get so caught up with this topic. Ultimately individuals should be free to do what they please and have that choice respected.
**hope you feel better soon!
I can understand your perspective in the thought of whether trans-affirming care reinforces certain gender stereotypes. However, I would only find myself agreeing with that conclusion if gender-affirming care was approached from a one-size fits each gender approach, which it doesn't. There is no one way to be trans, and no gender-affirming care journey is going to look exactly the same. People, including transgender people, comprise a spectrum and that some (perhaps even a majority) transgender people follow a so-called "traditional trans narrative" does not invalidate the spectrum we all find ourselves--trans or otherwise. I agree then that "bodily autonomy should be granted to each individual".
And thank you. I hope I feel better soon as well. I have been sick since Friday night and this is probably the worst illness I've had in 10+ years.
This post was edited by Handcuffs on Nov 15 2022 05:42pm