smush p*rn is about as PG as it gets, that's nothing. i listen to a few podcasts that regularly get emails from people into WAY more weird stuff that's legit disturbing. and most of the odd kinks are directly rooted to childhood trauma, so its even more sad. at least these weirdos are just a bit too into fatties. in any case people into fatties are WAY better than people into rail thin chicks, those are just cowardly pedos.

Two wrongs don't make it right. Both are bad, we are in fatties thread => fatties bad.
Interestingly enough, the other day, I was at a buffet after a meeting. People were stuffing their plates as if they've experienced a prolonged famine with stuff which didn't even go together taste wise. Some people, mostly women, couldn't even finish off their meal.
I think this kind of mentality is also part of the problem. You could put full stands of food and sweets in front of me. I wouldn't eat more than necessary.

is this just a humble brag to say you're not fat? congrats. convince ur sister to get a BF yet?

I am not fat at all. 14% body fat, no belly.

This post was edited by babun1024 on Jul 19 2023 11:14am

thanks for adding stats to exactly what i said.

on topic if you think "both bad" is a good way to address two cases here you're naïve. i'm talking about people too into fatties compared to people who do BDSM because they were beaten as children and it's a deeply unhealthy way to deal with their trauma. they're not "both bad", one is "bad" and one is a truly and deeply damaging thing that should be stopped immediately.

In my youth i didnt went over 150 pounds, even i tried hard to get away from that 'skinny' bodytype. With schnitzels, braten, burgers and all that fat juicy tasty food. But i didnt get the weight i wanted (~180 pounds) to feel well, i love a bit chubby^^
When i went to the docs they tested me and said i have hyperthyroidism. There were 2 options for me:
1: take pills which regulate my thyroid, but could/will cause cancer over the time or
2. Eat even more then i did at that point.

I chose #2 ofc

Today i got my perfect 180 pounds, pending +-15 pounds depends how much i eat/drink.

I saw alot pics of 1000+ pounds americans cruising arround in their scooters, thats too much bois and girls. If you cant even walk yourself anymore, its fuckin way too much.. how can you feel well when you can not even move anymore?

Your search history is probably very interesting.

Fortunately for my wife my desires are vanilla in the bedroom. intellectually tho im very interested in the topic of kink development psychologically. from root causes to increasing severity over time. i think because in my teens and 20s, being on the wild west internet that we had back then, i like many men was at a crossroads. and while i chose a decent path its interesting to see where i and many others could have gone.

I agree that it is interesting psychologically. The line between kink shaming and being "kink concerned", as some have put it, is quite amorphous.

Dude, all females ressemble kids more or less, better said the attractive ones. They automatically trigger caring, adoration etc. in grown up males similar to kids. In kids, it's even more extreme. Some sickos have got predisposition to be turned on by kids only = pedophiles. Some males are turned on by very voluptious females ( your BDSM example). While I agree pedophiles are the real problem and should be removed from a society alltogether, their preferences hardly matter in being too thin or obese because the number of sick pedos is miniscule compared to the obese people. Being thinner than average = long fullfilling life health wise. Being obese => heart ages much faster=> dying earlier.
I don't judge people for being overweight. I think they suffer enough every day. If they decide to lose weight, I'll gladly support, however I'd never regard or propagate overweight or being obese as ok. The only people with a free pass card are women who are naturally more molly (yes, they exist and they look better that way) and women after pregnancies with small kids. The rest and specially 98% of men are just lazy, fat fucks.

This post was edited by babun1024 on Jul 19 2023 01:48pm