Quote (Thor123422 @ Apr 23 2020 01:59pm)
and people who don't have access to a gun? Or who don't have convenient access to the roof of a 30 story building?
I'm sorry but the bolded is just a really stupid thing to say. You're trying to judge "degrees of wanting to die" by if the attempt was successful or not..... it's honestly a bit sick. "He just tried to kill himself for attention, otherwise he would have used a gun" is not too far off from what you said.
when my sister was 13 her best friend tried to do just that, she slit her wrists at a time when her parents were supposed to be coming home, because she was depressed and her parents were anti therapy. she didnt want to die, but her parents were late and she bled out. this was all confirmed by her diary where she detailed her plan, with the time she was going to do it.
im sorry you dont think these people exist, but some people do self harm up to near suicide for attention, or to punish themselves for something, or just due to a traumatic event that desensitized them to pain/strangulation, etc. you dont know any cutters? or self erotic choking people?
Quote (Skinned @ Apr 23 2020 01:57pm)
As someone who is around it a lot and has struggled with the idea plenty i consider many suicides to be acute mental health attacks, like a heart attack, a sudden and acute exacerbation and very impulsive. These are the cases that benefit greatly from a psychiatric hospitalization.
There are those, and there are people who are "in it to win it", who when we meet they have made arrangements, have no future orientation, and aren't labile or agitated or even upset about anything. Those are people who will go on and complete a suicide plan.
More adding an aside. I'd be interested in knowing how many acts of deliberate self harm have resulted in accidental death as well as your question.
yup read above, i knew about that from a personal level from a young age.