Quote (catkaboodle @ Mar 17 2011 03:03pm)
I don't understand why people are ignoring the option to adopt. Is there something dumb about that idea? :?
That's a pretty good idea too. I don't think this will work so well in this situation though, since he's apparently taking responsibility for something that may be the result of one of the other (three?) dudes she's currently seeing. Adopting out works when it's a monogamous relationship and there's some agreed boundaries (i.e, no marriage talk for X years, no kids).
My only issue with it is that I've seen what can happen after nine months, especially with party girls who do a lot of drugs and have multiple sexual partners. At my high school, no fewer than three sets of f***buddies ended up in relationships after a pregnancy. Here's a sample of comments I've found to be typical--
-I've given it some thought, and I feel I should keep the baby
-Even if you're not the father, I feel you should support me.
-Any real man would support a baby that wasn't his
-You're taking a paternity test.
-I don't want my baby to be adopted out
-I can't support the little one alone
-Hey, can you spot me twenty bucks so I can buy smokes and Karkov? I feel the baby wouldn't mind
This post was edited by general_patton on Mar 17 2011 02:44pm