Quote (thesnipa @ 7 Apr 2016 16:32)
As someone who quit smoking out of shame ill go ahead and say, Fuck that. Shame works wonders on certain people in certain applications, there is just an issue of making it the norm for everyone. Shaming people for being dumb is a bad comparison though, as environmental factors and even genetics play a role. And in the same way no one shames those who have legitimate health reasons to be fat, the issue is when someone claims their disorder which should add 10-20 pounds to their weight is the cause of them being 200 lbs overweight. The issue is when someone apologizes their addiction by claiming their families have a predisposition to addiction, which could surely apologize away something like smoking tobacco or an inability to quit tobacco but not an addiction to Crack or Heroin. Also Fantastic is spelled with an F.
new science estimates that the reason behind fat people is about 50% genetics.
and you bet that environmental factors play a role too.
also english is only my 2nd language :-)
im not denying that shame cant be helpful in some cases. Making a rule of it tho is just not going to create the results. Maybe its better tactics then most tho. not sure.
However id personally not like this at all. And this would also mean we shame everyone with an issue they can correct.
Like being stupid, or being an asshole or... you name it.