Quote (Black XistenZ @ Sep 14 2021 09:24am)
It's utterly unromantic and it's expecting a kind of commitment that's just really out of place.
You can set up such a contract when you've been a couple for 4 years and about to marry, but not two fucking weeks into the relationship. ;)
This is just "I wouldn't like it, so it's inherently bad".
Not all relationship dynamics are the same, and traditional relationship dynamics are often not a good fit.
There is no "you can do X after 4 years." They can do this if they want. Unless there's an actual red flag, I don't see a reason to interpret this as anything other than her trying to meet on his level.