i think the issue here is your bias of desiring a monogamous lifetime partner. you're extending that to the motivations for incel culture. in my estimation men are less concerned with finding a wife than they are finding a woman who isn't turned off by their mere presence. men are still the sex less likely to commit to a long term relationship by nature, its just that women have closed the gap.

but this is a complicated web of motivations from the female side, later marrying meta, more support sans men in society, female empowerment campaigns, etc.

if the end result is some small percent of men wont be able to find partners, and that's a tiny increase over the percent that didnt find partners in the 1950s, other than them shooting up schools, i dont really care too much.

if you're a quality man who treats women with a bit of roasting humor then demonstrates value you'll lock a woman down. if u can't manage that, in a world where access to women is exponentially expanded, then change who you are. bemoaning society because u cant get laid is just sad. if anything wait until they hit their 30s and they're all settling to get into a 2 paycheck household and out of their cat filled 1 bedroom flat and you're all of a sudden a catch just for having a job, no divorces, and not being obese.

Bro are you still single lol

Ask your wife



I agree. Its not me Im worried about necessarily. Its the 80% of men that will fail due to the structure of our current culture.

I also think it is irresponsible to allow women to make bad choices without pressuring them with the facts of their situation.

Becoming an alcoholic in your late forties when the dating pool dries up is dismal. Its exactly what happened to the founder of jezebel. This specific situation is going to account for a majority of women unless a critical mass of people agree on pushing a different message to help.

And to correct you. It is harder to find a woman than ever before in history today. Less than 5% of women have traits necessary to maintain a marriage.

This post was edited by EndlessSky on Aug 27 2021 09:42am

80% of men?

incels and forever singles are a niche part of society. might be growing, im sure in fact it is, but these are still the fringes.

80% of millenials are unmarried at 30. For men this is only slightly bad. For women it is crippling.

crippling. interesting.

more money due to less children, advanced career, independence, etc. just so crippling.

que: "but a black woman im sure exists has 5 kids and lives on welfare because facebook said its ok"

If only your parents felt the same way.

a limp attempt at savagery from someone who so proudly wears "cant find a wife" on his size small sleeve.

i could get divorced today and run my way through more wives than Trump had before u get one of your dirty gene'd zygotes attached to a consenting wall.

This post was edited by thesnipa on Aug 27 2021 10:00am

Lmao sorry to here man

Gl out there it’s rough trying to find a mate!