thankfully everyone can fix those problems on their own



i agree on the porn, but you cant deny that social media etc has changed the market, it was so much different before smartphones when everyones dating pool was limited to the locals you interacted with

smart phone dating apps make sleeping with women easier than its ever been by a longshot.

women being less likely to settle down doesnt explain men not having sex with women at all.

dating apps and social media are valid to lowered marriage rates, increased divorce rates, etc. but not incels.

men were always the sex less likely to want to commit. its a paradise for men out there now if they want to spread seed.

That is definitely one factor. There are probably like ten causes total.

it has never been easier indeed, but only if we are talking about the top half or better of guys

the number of male virgins age 18 to 30 has tripled in the last 10 years iirc

again, its not very hard to be a part of that group though and enjoy the benefits

This post was edited by JohnnyMcCoy on Aug 26 2021 01:53pm

tinder has created an objective looks only way of getting girls in your range.

4's get 4's, 10's get 10's and if they want 4's too. ez to move down, hard to move up.

i know lots of fugly dudes that clean up on tinder with fugly chicks.



its a pie chart for sure, social media is the slice i give my 1 year old daughter, feminism is what my wife eats modestly, and porn is the rest of the pie i eat with icecream.

This post was edited by thesnipa on Aug 26 2021 02:01pm

You admitted it yourself. Polygamy destroys monogamy. You have to police polygamy in order to encourage the other. And welfare basically subsidizes their d-word (I'm not allowed to say this word anymore apparently) and multiplies the polygamy.

The biggest pie of the pie chart is polygamy. Polygamy isn't possible without outside influence and was artificially created.

I blame Biden for how men are treated.

Women above 5 get whoever they want, and none get commitment anymore.

Compare a 5 woman's inbox to a 5 man's inbox.

If a 5 woman isn't willing to be with a 5 man, she will buy a dog and die alone.

Inb4 shit anecdote.

men will sleep with a woman of lower score, women are more exclusive. this is more than likely at least partially explained by evolutionary behavior in humans where women were given the rights to sexual selection, even though men had the strength to ignore this selection. to match women were given cyclical sex drives compared to the omnipresent sexual urges of men, to keep us constantly looking for a mate or mates because we have the ability to impregnate dozens of women who can each only carry one child to birth. mathematically women only have the need to have sex once every several years, biologically they're given a sex drive because conception rates arent even close to 1:1 with sex.

in short, we're the male penguins searching endlessly for the right pebble, they turn down 10 pebbles until one catches their eyes.

a large part of biological male-ness is to have sexual urges denied 99 times out of 100. its what it is to be a man. this has always been true, dating apps are just giving us stats on unsuccess and social isolation turns that from joking with the guys "yeah she shot me down" (they all laugh, together) into a deeply isolated experience for many social outcasts.

mgtow isnt the answer, male social clubs bemoaning and laughing at the natural failure to get laid is the way. find guys, hit golf balls, cook steaks, laugh about ur failures, and keep at it. its a numbers game.

This post was edited by thesnipa on Aug 27 2021 07:36am

Dating apps turned the rejection rate from 99 out of 100 into 100 out of 100. The 5 woman would rather share a better man than find long term commitment with a 5, and she can.

Just have a 5 minute conversation with average women at college and then again when she hits 30. The best place that a woman has access to men that will commit is during college. Without fail (95%+) the woman thinks she is too good for any of the choices around her. Look at her again when she is thirty and you will find that she will never do better than the choices she had in college.

Black women are especially funny. Black women in college now are mad because black men date other races. They even call the men race traitors. All without realizing that those same black women rejecting the men are the reason why black men don't date black women. Women don't have self awareness anymore because men are too afraid to call them out. The men would rather just mind their own business than risk getting fired through HR or losing social standing.