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lol ok bro
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Quote (pwb3 @ Feb 4 2021 04:40pm)
:huh:

wtf... I have no words... go away, troll


dude got sexually/physically abused as a child and suffers from stockholm syndrome basically.
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Give and take or 50/50 is fair and square, I'm not arguing against that so I'm not going to argue with you over that ;)

Thor is on a scale 90% wife / 10 him if he's lucky that is, lol


I'd say our relationship is 70% me and 30% wife in terms of who makes things happen.

My wife is pretty passive and risk-averse. As long as she can come home to her cats she's fine. I generally have to push her to get into hobbies and make friends, and she generally lets me do what I want as long as I can justify that our finances are in good enough shape to do it.
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Feb 5 2021 10:08pm
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I think people are far too individualistic and uncompromising which is probably what drives these divorce rates

Men and women need to understand family comes first. And when the kids arrive your life is shitty for the next 20 years cuz its all about them and you cant have fun again until they're off to college.

indeed. which is fine, just dont get married. all sorts of relationships (personal, professional etc.) require sacrifices and compromises. marriage you throw in sharing of assets and children in many instances. requires full-on commitment to the family unit which is far more pertinent than the individual needs



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don't worry, my opinion of you has already hit rock bottom.. it cannot go any lower :)




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I'd say our relationship is 70% me and 30% wife in terms of who makes things happen.

My wife is pretty passive and risk-averse. As long as she can come home to her cats she's fine. I generally have to push her to get into hobbies and make friends, and she generally lets me do what I want as long as I can justify that our finances are in good enough shape to do it.


Obviously we are not talking about who has more hobbies than the other but we are talking about the bolded part, your wife is obviously in control of everything, now you're stating yourself you must "justify that our finances are in good enough shape to do it" well I guess that means you basically have to ask permission before you buy something XD

My opinion of you has reached rock bottom, bunch of politically correct nonsense and SJW BS

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Obviously we are not talking about who has more hobbies than the other but we are talking about the bolded part, your wife is obviously in control of everything, now you're stating yourself you must "justify that our finances are in good enough shape to do it" well I guess that means you basically have to ask permission before you buy something XD

My opinion of you has reached rock bottom, bunch of politically correct nonsense and SJW BS


Such incel cringe
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Such incel cringe


Wife told you moving to Canada is out of the question, nothing you can do about it cuz of the hopeless position you've put yourself in, life is great as a politically correct SJW eh

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Wife told you moving to Canada is out of the question, nothing you can do about it cuz of the hopeless position you've put yourself in, life is great as a politically correct SJW eh


Incel cringe
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Feb 6 2021 03:31am
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Incel cringe


Wife said NO, game over buddy ;)

Deal with it
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Feb 6 2021 06:56am
The trend seems to be an acceleration in relationship outcomes, not just divorce IMO. Other than a ~2/3 month dip, a lot of my peers including myself had a newborn. Wife having no job while I work remote lead to a lot of fun times in the sack :)

My father got into a pretty good relationship prior to COVID, but that fizzled out. The main problem seemed to be the political differences, which weren't a big problem until the last 6 months of Trumpism. Had to verbally slap the old man a few times, vagina controlling his thoughts.

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