Quote (thesnipa @ Nov 26 2021 12:16pm)
as i said, turn shame into something positive takes a bit of teaching on perspective.
now, of course, i dont mean we should shame people about things they cant change. Down's Syndrome, birth defects, being a packer fan, etc.
It would be easier to just not shame in the first place, and you avoid the risk of people who don't get taught a specific skill of motivating based on shame, which isn't even the best way to motivate people in the first place.