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May 17 2021 01:00pm
Quote (duffman316 @ May 16 2021 12:05am)
Christ i just read up on that


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May 17 2021 01:44pm
Quote (sir_lance_bb @ May 17 2021 09:09am)
All this does is increase the chances of creating more losers unable to cope later on in life.

The research is pretty clear on this. Physical punishment and extreme parenting tactics just increase the chance to create more people with issues.

Millennials and Gen Z are no different than their parents/grandparents. Boomers and Gen X were breathing in lead from leaded gasoline and wherever else it was just nonchalantly being used and put into and you end up with the 70-80s crime waves and all the while probably all the emotional and physical abuse.

Kids are stupid and if you use physical punishment, you'll make them even more stupid.


Disagree and the research is at best lefty pseudo science.

This post was edited by RedFromWinter on May 17 2021 01:48pm
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Quote (thesnipa @ May 17 2021 01:57pm)
older brothers and cousins serve no other purpose! good "u were a bad kid" result tho, most of those statements are jailbirds lol.



I stole my cousins first edition charizard card and when confronted I threw it in the garbage and to this day he thinks he lost it
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May 17 2021 01:51pm
Quote (Jupe @ 16 May 2021 05:16)
Topic reminds me of that guy who punched his kid and killed him after eating his cheese cake


why killing when you can torture ?
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May 17 2021 01:54pm
Quote (Bazi @ May 17 2021 02:48pm)
I stole my cousins first edition charizard card and when confronted I threw it in the garbage and to this day he thinks he lost it


ok i take it back, you were a monster.
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May 17 2021 02:14pm
Quote (thesnipa @ May 17 2021 02:54pm)
ok i take it back, you were a monster.



I take it back too, I should have been beaten
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May 17 2021 02:21pm
Quote (Thor123422 @ May 17 2021 11:54am)
Idk man, virtually everybody I know who was spanked turned out to be shit people. My sister and I are the exceptions. Pretty much everybody in rural areas is spanked, and probably 80% of them turn into worthless leaches shooting up meth and doing no good for the world.



I disagree, but only because my view of the world was 180 from yours growing up. Most of the people I grew up with were spanked like me, they grew up just fine. The few that got into drugs had parents that were more like friends. You know, the house we would all go to to smoke weed and drink liquor cause the parents didn’t care lmao (good kids do stupid shit too). I can’t speak on all of them but at least a few of those dudes who got into heavier drugs had parents that never spanked them.
I will spank my kid in front of his friends if he acts up. You have to deflate their ego a little bit, it is not healthy for children to think the world revolves around them and that they can live by their own rules etc. they really have no clue what’s best for them.
I wouldn’t spank my kid in front of his friends after a certain age however, just when he’s younger and the kids aren’t old enough to bully him about it, you know? It’s really just a way to show him he fucked up and I’m being serious 😂 no punishment afterwards either, just the spanking to assert dominance and then give him a talking to about what he did and why we don’t do whatever it was.
People like to look at the negative of getting physical, but if you reinforce it with a positive talk afterwards and show affection after discipline you will get a better outcome. I think most of the kids that end up doing drugs / lashing out are being spanked more and shown as less affection from their parents or they just never spanked their kids in the first place and let them run around making their own rules which eventually clashes with the laws in reality.

This post was edited by UmadLoL on May 17 2021 02:23pm
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May 17 2021 02:22pm
Somebody make a survey and ask pard who was beat and who was treated well.

This post was edited by Skinned on May 17 2021 02:23pm
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Quote (Skinned @ May 17 2021 03:22pm)
Somebody make a survey and ask pard who was beat and who was treated well.


what's "beat"?

i was spanked, or my dad's favorite "the sternum" where he'd just make a knuckle and push it into your chest bone until he got a reaction.

i think i only ever got spanked/sternum'd 5 times or under all my life, but i dont begrudge either parent for doing so. although i dont plan to do the same.
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May 17 2021 02:26pm
Quote (thesnipa @ May 17 2021 01:25pm)
what's "beat"?

i was spanked, or my dad's favorite "the sternum" where he'd just make a knuckle and push it into your chest bone until he got a reaction.

i think i only ever got spanked/sternum'd 5 times or under all my life, but i dont begrudge either parent for doing so. although i dont plan to do the same.


Dam bro you got that too? 😂 shit worked like a charm on me lmfaooo

Wouldn’t do anything past spanking until my kid gets older and starts thinking he can kick my ass 😂

If my dad couldn’t catch me to do that shot he would whip me hella hard with the belt in the legs until I stopped running 😂😂😂

This post was edited by UmadLoL on May 17 2021 02:28pm
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