Quote (IceMage @ Mar 20 2016 10:40am)
I have a conflicted view of shaming. As a whole I think a society makes itself stronger by shaming bad behavior, whether it be overeating, drug use, excessive alcohol consumption, infidelity, dishonesty, laziness, etc. As Aristotle said, tolerance and apathy are the last virtues of a dying society.
On the other hand, if someone close to me is consistently engaging in bad behavior, I'm never going to shame them. It's just not in my genes. I'll bring the issue up in a nonjudgmental, concerned way. That said, I think shaming is done in a more passive way now, which is both good and bad. For instance, compare how a store clerk treats an obese person vs an attractive person. Compare how they treat a flamboyant gay man vs a straight man.

Quote (Thor123422 @ Mar 20 2016 11:00am)
I'd need to see the data on how much it helps. It's definitely gratifying though, but I'm a bit of a sadist.
It might help some people, but a lot of people are emotional eaters and that wouldn't be helpful to people like that.
Quote (AiNedeSpelCzech @ Mar 20 2016 12:04pm)
We should definitely shame smokers, and anyone who drinks more than 5 drinks every other week, and anyone else who's making unhealthy choices, because we're all super concerned about peoples' health.
Feeling the shame already
