I hate to be all suspicious and what not, but I went to Harvard as an undergrad. There is no pre-law major at Harvard. There is also a naval ROTC program, so what you are claiming doesn't make a whole lot of sense. On the chance that you just mistyped and you are really bound for Cambridge, call someone at the health center for advice. There is no institution anywhere that takes care of its students better than Harvard--someone will be able to give you advice. They even tell you to call the Harvard police for bail if you get arrested. In any case, start here:

http://www.huhs.harvard.edu/OurServices/MentalHealthServices.aspx

I wouldn't either, but your saying if you and some chick are about to get it on, and you stop and say " are you on the pill" and she's like "yes".. You would say "show me"? And just stop? Plus I mean as long as you have a condom you should be fine.

Tiny American flags for some, abortions for others!

I have stopped in the moment because I didn't have adequate protection. Potential disease or pregnancy ain't worth it.

Pull out and take some penicillin. It'll be worth it.

If she slept with 2 other guys demand a DNA test and throw her down a flight of stairs

1. You don't know that she's pregnant.
2. You don't know if the child is yours.
3. Even if the child is yours, that doesn't spell out the end of your life.

Convincing someone else (especially if they didn't originally want to) to have an abortion has to be one of the most disgusting things I've ever heard. If the child is yours (and proven, considering the circumstances) you ought to pay what you are due, or alternatively you can fight it out in a court of law if you claim to have been duped into it.

not murder till its actually human

The question is whether or not she's talked to the other guys about it. I'm wagering she hasn't, and if she's pregnant she'll pin it on the OP.

It is human, and yes it is murder. Seriously, I get such a feeling of disgust when people try to solve their problems by preying on the helpless. I'll call bullshit on every coward who contends that it's better for the child that it's dead. Honestly, condemning someone to die because their life might entail some suffering has got to be one of the more revolting arguments in vogue today.