I would counter that I am merely realistic about politics. You have to play to win, or don't play. If your opponent is willing to cheat, lie, bend/break the rules, and you aren't, you'll lose. It's not about suffering, it's about being practical.
What's your excuse?
What's my excuse for what? I'm not the person who asked a question
The vast majority of my opponents don't cheat against me and I've gotten my fair share, therefore I hold politicians to a similar standard even if they don't meet it. You seem like you're surrounded by people who cheat against you.