Quote (obisent @ Mar 30 2016 09:49am)
We shouldn't shame people for being overweight as more than we should shame people for eating meat, excessive drinking, smoking, bad dental, etc. Doesn't seem like it's our buisness how they choose to live.
Only thing I can see people having a problem with is when the media/public tries to portray being overweight as a positive thing. If OP is worried about appearances, at the end of the day, people will still be more attracted to the fit/healthy person regardless of what the media does.
I think a lot of the time it's more about trying to be inclusive and realistic
Many professional models/actresses/etc live a very unhealthy lifestyle and their body fat is way too low which has short and long term negative effects that are not always shown on the outside like fat is.
and then there is all the mental and emotional damage involved
So many people are unhealthy for so many different reasons and the "they cost me money" nonsense is just a shield they use to do what they want to do
Which is cherry picking society and people based on their biases then shit on them to try to patch their own misery