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Feb 21 2022 04:22pm
Quote (EndlessSky @ Feb 21 2022 10:17pm)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nH4CNhzc6v4

Short discussion on how social media has made dating progressively worse over time.


women wanted this, no refunds

they wanted to be "free", now the guys they want use them for hookups and after 50 dudes at 32 years old they still think prince charming is just one swipe away

there is a reason the tinder swindler and his tricks actually worked

dating apps are great
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Feb 21 2022 04:42pm
Quote (kenw @ Feb 8 2022 03:55pm)


Damn that's one hot nazi.

Just hit 13 years with my wife :)

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Feb 22 2022 07:05am
Quote (EndlessSky @ Feb 21 2022 04:32pm)
I agree with some of this. I think the drop in marriage rate definitely shows that the minuses outweigh the pluses though.

The only reason why men or women “show their true colors” before a date is because it works on a lot of suitors. Those anecdotal cases of success also don’t say whether or not the relationships would have been better or worse if tinder wasn’t the progenitor.


that's only if we attribute the reduction entirely to online dating, which i dont think is even close to accurate.
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Feb 22 2022 07:08am
Quote (Skinned @ Feb 21 2022 10:42pm)
Damn that's one hot nazi.

Just hit 13 years with my wife :)


lets hope you won't make it until 14th.
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Feb 22 2022 07:10am
Quote (thesnipa @ Feb 22 2022 08:05am)
that's only if we attribute the reduction entirely to online dating, which i dont think is even close to accurate.


Entire social relations are different. You used to have to go outside to meet with people and be social. I grew up in the trees around the buildings I lived in but the Boomers slowly tore down that environment and filled it with strip malls with shitty little stores. Then mall culture, which was a blast 100%, but instead of being trained to be extroverted and gregarious kids are trained to be fearful and anxious. It is crazy that kids have schedules as busy as they do because their parents can't hold still.

If I try to drop my teenagers off at Kings Island, give them each $50, and try to drive off they will freak out like I am abandoning them lol. Why the fuck do I buy them the season passes with food allowances if I can't use that place as a place to leave my kids for hours at a time?

There used to be stray dogs too, but now there are all these weird rescues lol. First time I heard someone refer to their dog as a rescue I thought they pulled it out of a lake while it was drowning and nursed it back to health or something. I didn't know they were just being pretentious.

I gtg, going to work.

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Feb 22 2022 07:13am
Quote (SanduLungu @ Feb 22 2022 07:08am)
lets hope you won't make it until 14th.


Uncalled for and very ungentlemanly sir. <_<
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Uncalled for and very ungentlemanly sir. <_<


yeah, he's an angel and doesn't deserve it :D
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Feb 22 2022 12:31pm
Quote (thesnipa @ Feb 22 2022 08:05am)
that's only if we attribute the reduction entirely to online dating, which i dont think is even close to accurate.


If I had to guess the factors in order
-feminist demonization of the housewife
-social media
-welfare for single parents
-obesity
-PlasmaSnake
-no fault divorce and frivolous domestic courts
-boys and girls in families w/ no male role model
-inflation of the dollar / wages
-women delaying marriage ‘til late 20’s or later
-decay of the church
-companies that prefer women to be single because they spend more money that way

The big deal with social media/online dating these days is that at college or high school in the 90’s is you would only compete with your immediate peers. Now you are competing with Ashton Kutcher, an NBA player, some wealthy guy with a beach house upstate, and the other 1,000 simps sliding in her DM’s - which is probably fun for the women but definitely raises their expectations unattainably high too.
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Feb 22 2022 12:52pm
Quote (EndlessSky @ Feb 22 2022 01:31pm)
If I had to guess the factors in order
-feminist demonization of the housewife
-social media
-welfare for single parents
-obesity
-PlasmaSnake
-no fault divorce and frivolous domestic courts
-boys and girls in families w/ no male role model
-inflation of the dollar / wages
-women delaying marriage ‘til late 20’s or later
-decay of the church
-companies that prefer women to be single because they spend more money that way

The big deal with social media/online dating these days is that at college or high school in the 90’s is you would only compete with your immediate peers. Now you are competing with Ashton Kutcher, an NBA player, some wealthy guy with a beach house upstate, and the other 1,000 simps sliding in her DM’s - which is probably fun for the women but definitely raises their expectations unattainably high too.


i'd say two other factors are society wide apathy and longer lifespans. when you can expect to live to 100 instead of 65 you wait longer to have kids and get married.

social media has made people have a lot of unrealistic expectations, but sex is at an all time high so it doesnt seem to be slowing people down too much.
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Feb 22 2022 02:31pm
Quote (thesnipa @ Feb 22 2022 01:52pm)
i'd say two other factors are society wide apathy and longer lifespans. when you can expect to live to 100 instead of 65 you wait longer to have kids and get married.

social media has made people have a lot of unrealistic expectations, but sex is at an all time high so it doesnt seem to be slowing people down too much.


https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/03/29/share-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-record-high/

https://www.sciencefocus.com/news/are-we-really-having-less-sex/

Per the data I'm the only one fucking, apparently.

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