to be fair, it is a fact that the number male virgins multiplied in the last 10 years or so, a trend that started with social media

even below average chicks have like 100 matches on dating apps, while the equivalent guy is happy to get 1

classic families are already under attack, but the possible outcome of a huge number of men not being able to find a mate and women not settling for anything but the perfect guy until they are too old to have children, that will be a massive problem

there is this guy on youtube, kevin samuels, who has women call into his show, where 37 year old single moms cry about not getting a man making 200k a year

thank god european women are more traditional and thank god i was able to experience the time before social media

60% of single women are sexually active.

10% of single men are sexually active.

Math doesn't care about your feelings.

do you have any reliable data or study to support those claims, or is that just your personal experience, purely anecdotal evidence?

honesly sounds a lot like incel copium to me - and this is coming from someone who considers themselves a bit of an introvert, who was never much into partying / clubbing / actively looking for hook-ups...

https://www.healthline.com/health-news/young-adults-especially-men-having-sex-less-frequently

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2767066

It is most pronounced in younger people (18-24), but there is a much smaller gap in the 25-34 category as well.

thanks, but notice how i didn't highlight the part about the decrease of sexual activity, which i'm aware is a phenomenon in western societies. i specifically enquired about the woman-blaming passages, the suggestion that it's their fault for unreasonable standards, too high expectations - as opposed to a more nuanced and balanced approach.

sounds very peterson / molyneux / right wing youtube - inspired to me.

you can do it yourself, create a fake female profile and watch your inbox explode and compare it to your own

how i found out about this was in 2018, when i visited my best friend in austin, texas and i happened to chill with a group of girls talking about their social media

at some point i was like "how many messages do you guys get?" and they were totally down to show me their inboxes, instagram etc

just regular college girls can barely keep up with all that stuff

they couldnt believe that a regular dude doesnt even remotely get that much attention

its easy to throw the word incel around, but the dating landscape has become really bad thanks to the digital meat markets

as i said europe is not as bad

for my second point: yes, traditional families are under attack, women are encouraged to freeze eggs etc, stay at home moms literally need to justify their decision

the marriage and first child age go up, while both rates go down in general, thats a fact

its clear evidence for the fact that people dont want to settle down anymore

just check youtube, there are entire channels with millions of views on that shit "dont settle down below your standards" "how to be a trophy wife for a rich man and then divorce him"

didnt you mention some time that you had a catholic upbringing? tradition is dead mate

you know what "anecdotal evidence" means? because all the methods you're suggesting to test your claims would just lead to further anecdotal results. furthermore, even IF we assumed your results were statistically significant, your conclusions from it are not compelling. that discrepancy could easily be explained by supply and demand, and different approaches to looking for hook ups through social media. this is so basic that i can't believe i have to explain it really...

your cringy "women's standards these days are just too damn high. they should settle for guys like me" conclusion is in no way consequential. that's the part i consider incel copium - not the part about changing dating habits, which is something that at least rings true to me, even without any studies.

the part about the "attack on traditional families" intrigues me though. it sounds very sinister. can you share with me WHO you think is "attacking" them, through which means, and what exactly do you think is their motivation, their goal?

This post was edited by fender on Apr 9 2021 12:30pm

Fucking incels lol.

You wouldn't have gotten bitches in the past man. You should just become someone worth a shit and you will get a good mate. It's the immutable law of fucking.

This post was edited by Skinned on Apr 9 2021 12:33pm

Yea....that's just wrong. If you believe that the disparity is that high, your bullshit meter is broken beyond repair.

If you can't get a white woman, you should get a black one. You keep blaming welfare, single-motherhood, etc. Why don't you find a nice black lady, start a family and provide? Be the change that you advocate for.