"Sex: It is the most sacred thing that there is. Sex makes it possible for spiritual beings to join completely with their mates and create new life. It brings people out of their heads and down into their bodies. It centers you and brings you to the present better than anything else. Sex in the present is as good as it gets.
Fantasy is ok to get things going, because sex is of the mind, but once you get into it, you want to get out of your mind and just be in the present with your mate.
For spiritual beings, it will be like the first time every time, a perpetual one-night stand without the negatives. Love is always new. You will be making love for the first time, every time, and you become one flesh as it says in the Bible. You just have to know the truth and have your mind under control, so that you are free to love all the time.
Sex creates all new life, so it is the balancing opposite of death. Nothing is more serious. To not take sex seriously is like not taking fire seriously.
You always have to remember that you do not want any great pleasure if it is not in the truth and the life, because it will be balanced by an equal amount of pain.
If you are not in love and the time is not right, you will not have sex. Young people that know the truth, male and female, will abstain until it is right. Casual sex will disappear, because people will know better; they will know it is not the way. Spiritual beings know right from wrong for certain, so they never do anything wrong, simply because they do not feel like it. There will be no sex before or outside of marriage when people wake up.
Sex can be the best thing or worst thing for a person’s spiritual growth. If you feel like doing the wrong thing, it means you do not know the truth.
When you see the truth of the balance, you realize you do not want any pleasure that does not come from knowing the truth and life, because it is the only pleasure in the universe that is not balanced, because it is not physical, and thus not part of physical law. It is not even to be called pleasure. It is fulfillment, bliss.
Until you learn the truth to the point that it goes subconscious, it is best to stay in the middle of pain and pleasure, or it will just make learning the truth impossible. It seems a little boring at first, but then it turns out to be where God lives.
You only want to have sex when it is true love and thus spiritual sex. Any other kind will damn everyone involved in every way, but this is only after you know the truth. All the sex you had before you knew will be forgiven, but not now."
from:
http://www.truthcontest.com/insights/love-sex-marriage