Quote (Black XistenZ @ Sep 26 2024 11:45pm)
There should be sex education in schools imho, but it should be at age 11 or 12 or so, not for pre-pubescent children.
Having taught sex education between elementary to high school age, I can at least share that 'sex education' for younger kids is only described as such for the parents' understanding. It is mostly about the basics of consent, in the broadest of senses, and building confidence that they can talk to their teacher or other trusted adult should someone touch them inappropriately or make them uncomfortable. Late pre-pubescence is about puberty education, as it is ideal for the kids to have the knowledge prior to experiencing puberty.
That said, my experience was that nearly 100% of parents were supportive of the education we provided. I do think that our process afforded trust though, as we provided our curriculum in advance to parents, offered two separate parent meetings where they could come and ask questions, and framed our education as information-based and not values-based (aside from some basics, such as our stance that the kids have the right to sex education as applicable to their lives). I believe out of the classes we provided this service to, amounting to over 1,000+ kids in total, I can only recall 1 parent who did not sign the waiver for their child to participate--and, according to the teacher, it was due to general religious beliefs and not a reaction to our specific curriculum.
Parents were overwhelming curious about what we'd teach out about abortion in particular. The kids were rarely ever curious about that, and instead asked more about masturbation, puberty, and whether some birth-control strategy they heard from peers is actually legit or not. Lots of kids hearing they could use Coca Cola or Mountain Dew as a spermicide; or, confusingly, that a girl could do a handstand after sex to prevent pregnancy.