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Jul 10 2023 12:30pm
Quote (Handcuffs @ Jul 10 2023 12:18pm)
Again, I'm not saying that it's "not serious", but that there are a number of people extremely preoccupied by this issue who otherwise would never experience an intersection of it in the real world.

I'm not talking about people who simply have an opinion on this topic, but the people (such as the people in PaRD) whose last 10 threads in PaRD have all been trans-related.


safe to say you voted birthing people comrade?
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Jul 10 2023 01:01pm
Quote (DizzyBusiness @ Jul 10 2023 11:29am)
Did you miss the part where I asked what the connotation was?

Seems weird to dodge that question and answer the second

If I replaced it with "you and people who are generally supportive of trans rights" would you be able to respond to the meat of the post or would you just find some other insignificant detail to focus on?


It would be easier to find motivation to respond, yes. There's a tremendous amount of inter-community discourse happening within the queer community, and being "supportive of trans rights" means different things to different people. The community is not monolithic as much as the culture war wishes to paint us all as part of discrete sides.
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Jul 10 2023 01:02pm
Quote (duffman316 @ Jul 10 2023 11:30am)
safe to say you voted birthing people comrade?


I haven't voted in the poll, but typically I find myself using different language dependent on the context. When I'm seeking to speak as inclusively as possible, I usually say "People who are pregnant" or something similar.

"Birthing persons" sounds weird, to me.

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Quote (bogie160 @ Jul 9 2023 06:55pm)
These "culture war" hot button issues always stem from a crackpot left-wing activist group seeking obligatory changes to the English language.

People find it both ridiculous and offensive. When these activist groups stop, people will stop caring. If a woman wants to refer to herself as a "birthing person", she's welcome to do it.

https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2021/09/pregnant-people-gender-identity/620031/


no, the only people pretending that this is a big thing that trans people are trying to push on society are the "lol what is a woman" people that have an iq just barely high enough to continue breathing to stay alive, unfortunately

Quote (duffman316 @ Jul 9 2023 07:13pm)
I don't think its as serious as its made out to be on social media but I did happen to notice that the hospital I go to has renamed the mom and baby clinic to the family and baby clinic 🤔


because of those crowds that inflate non issues, alot of hospitals, and just general corporate entities, try to pretend they hold high morale values by pretending to be as accepting as they perceive the world wants them to be to maintain a good image

and they do this on the principle of doing what is normally considered morally good for a super small minority of people who get absolutely fucking railed every day by hate in the media

rational people understand that the small things get blown out of proportion and know that transgender people are not perverted psycho criminals who shouldnt be allowed in public. we are just people, and i know you know this.

you should consider the spaces you seek online when "noticing" "patterns" . every place has a bias (for instance, jsp being basically 95% hard right leaning, with some lesser percentage dissenting)

the more online one becomes politically, if they are not lgbt, the more they will eventually be funneled into the matt walshes and such, because the algorithm demands it. most people that are fully on either side of the fence concerning lgbt issues tend to be easily swayed by this hateful rhetoric (ie TiStuff minded people) and eventually begin to believe that the us against them scenario is true, when its very much non existent. a fallacy. created by hateful fearmongering and in some cases, literal fascist monsters.

my own brother, who has always been against my transition and thinks im making a horrible mistake with my life etc, has opened up to me noticing just how horrible people get about the transphobia, and even he took a step back on being a part of that(though still very non accepting of my transition)


the more the right tries to blow small nothings out of proportion, the more corporate entities get confused and play into those fallacies(in this case i mean the "birthing people" stuff that is not a strong position held by any relevant activist) until it starts to just be reality. bigotry always prevails....
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Jul 10 2023 02:02pm
Quote (blahaj @ Jul 10 2023 03:44pm)
no, the only people pretending that this is a big thing that trans people are trying to push on society are the "lol what is a woman" people that have an iq just barely high enough to continue breathing to stay alive, unfortunately


Then it should be very easy to tell these activists to knock it off.
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Jul 10 2023 02:25pm
Quote (bogie160 @ Jul 10 2023 03:02pm)
Then it should be very easy to tell these activists to knock it off.


oh so it should be my personal responsibility to denounce them? what a silly suggestion. you clearly should be able to read and figure out my stance on it....
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Jul 10 2023 02:41pm
Quote (Handcuffs @ Jul 10 2023 04:01pm)
It would be easier to find motivation to respond, yes. There's a tremendous amount of inter-community discourse happening within the queer community, and being "supportive of trans rights" means different things to different people. The community is not monolithic as much as the culture war wishes to paint us all as part of discrete sides.


You are responding anyway though, you just aren't addressing any points lol, it is weird how obsessively you and a few others jump to the defense of trans people in all of these threads, yet if you get challenged even slightly by something other than a FOX News talking point you are suddenly above it all and won't dignify anything with a response. It is like clockwork.

No community is monolithic but something makes them a community does it not? If I say conservatives own more guns than liberals, would you get upset that I'm treating them as a monolith? Would I be saying "every conservative definitely owns more guns than any liberal"? Or could you parse out the meaning with common sense?

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Jul 10 2023 02:48pm
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You are responding anyway though, you just aren't addressing any points lol, it is weird how obsessively you and a few others jump to the defense of trans people in all of these threads, yet if you get challenged even slightly by something other than a FOX News talking point you are suddenly above it all and won't dignify anything with a response. It is like clockwork.

No community is monolithic but something makes them a community does it not? If I say conservatives own more guns than liberals, would you get upset that I'm treating them as a monolith? Would I be saying "every conservative definitely owns more guns than any liberal"? Or could you parse out the meaning with common sense?


I'm quite happy to give a response to a challenge, and feel that I did. Maybe I'm not understanding what challenge you posed?

It seemed your challenge was that people who have been supportive of the trans community have been silent about this issue and are now experiencing the long-term backlash of that silence, which is fueled by the media/politicians leaning into it as a wedge issue. Is my understanding correct?
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Jul 10 2023 02:53pm
call them .....those other dudes?

Quote (Ghot @ Jul 9 2023 10:12am)
We should call them... preggos.


:)

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Jul 10 2023 03:03pm
Quote (Handcuffs @ Jul 10 2023 09:18am)
Again, I'm not saying that it's "not serious", but that there are a number of people extremely preoccupied by this issue who otherwise would never experience an intersection of it in the real world.

I'm not talking about people who simply have an opinion on this topic, but the people (such as the people in PaRD) whose last 10 threads in PaRD have all been trans-related.


Quote (thesnipa @ Jul 10 2023 09:21am)
100%. trans topics are wildly overcovered. both pro and anti. the reality is we need to spend a little time as a society preserving basic rights for trans people, and spend a lot of time preserving basic rights for all people. and in the mean time focus less on typifying cases of all kinds, they're just sown seeds of division.


ya but its not really about trans

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