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so i and millions of people like me are “at fault and creators of racist behavior, and “have racism flowing in my diverse family” because of my skin color. and so do millions of other families like mine. thats quite a damning assessment of millions of different people who the author has never met or cultures the author may have never experienced
Again, no. Stop trying to feel so oppressed. She's saying that those who do harbor racist thoughts and actions are the ones who have to acknowledge them, deal with them, and work to get rid of them, and it's not black people's job to guide them through the process.
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If you’re not being racist, no one is going to come looking for you. Blacks have neither the time for, nor the interest in, dragging people minding their business out of their own lane and into ours. Our plates are full with actual racists — nobody here is manufacturing anything special for you, ok?
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Are we crowd sourcing accountability for Black hate, insisting you share in your brother’s scorn? Do we suggest you’re interchangeable, answerable for the crimes of any bad actor, and name you the ambassador for all?
Don’t be ridiculous — that’s not our team, that’s yours. Stop projecting.
We are not stupid, or even spiteful. Nor do we act from that weird, altruist Stephen King-thing (I love you Stephen!) of the selfless Black folk with the shining. And, as my fire and brimstone shero said just days ago, be content it is not revenge we seek. It is a simple matter of self-preservation: making you Bubba’s crime-proxy leaves his threat free to roam the streets. Nothing about that is of any value to me.
So no, you are not vicariously liable for the acts of strangers, your clan, or your kin. Deal with them as I assume we all do: shepherd from risk those who matter to you. Don’t you worry, we’ll handle Bubba.