Quote (inkanddagger @ Dec 24 2009 03:27am)
Doesn't matter what the majority wants. This country was founded on the principle of shaking off the shackles of the tyranny of the majority. I don't want to marry a man - in fact I am married to a woman, but that doesn't mean two men getting married threatens my marriage at all. The only marriage gay marriage threatens is a Republican marriage where the man is a closet homosexual with an unfortunate and repressed life.
Gay marriage is a matter of having the state recognize it. No one is forbidding a gay man from participating in a private ceremony with another man.
Given that the state offers significant benefits for marriage, it stands to reason that society as a whole decides what the "state's definition" is.
For the last time, no negative rights are being infringed, a gay man can participate in marriage as it is currently defined. If he wished to pursue a relationship outside of those parameters, he is free to do so, but it isn't for us to immediately recognize his marriage in a legal setting.