he can be an incel and still "know" women that fit that description. we live in an era where social media tells you who is and isnt in "serious relationships".

u can get tinfoil and play the "but but but u dont know if they actually had a secret serious relationship for 5 years they never posted about" but that's silly.

incels can not understand women, not have success with women, and still have ample exposure to women via work, school, friends, family, etc. i have a few "incel" people in my general atmosphere that still "know" women, its just what they "know" about those women is usually tainted with their incel anti woman bias.

i think you'd be hard pressed if you have even a semi normal life to not know a woman who's 30 with 15+ past sexual partners who hasn't had a serious relationship. its extremely common, as is divorce when those women feel their bio clock ticking and fail to bridge the gap.

This post was edited by thesnipa on Jul 21 2021 12:34pm

sounds like the ultimate red flag, no offense

she messed around in her best years, the guys she really wanted didnt want her long term and she settled with what she could

the classic buzzer beater before its too late

this is gonna end badly for the guy, why exactly would that relationship work when she was basically 0/50 before she met him

Its painful to bring any of this up because the soi boi feminazis repeat the same lines over and over:

"who hurt you?"
"lol you must be incel"
"bible thumpy haha"

Its hard to know if they are even aware of how predictable they are.

Not all relationships are there to get married. It's pretty immature to think all relationships should have marriage as a goal IMO. Also, people change. Everybody is 0/X until they get a win. And plenty of relationships are a win and still end.

to be ultra fair, most of the bible thumpy "women are too slutty now adays" people are married and 40+. otherwise most people, even young conservative men, just eat it up like a buffet.

This is why im at a point id rather be single than deal with a woman who figures now that her pussy is stretched and worn that she'll settle down with a steady guy like me. They didnt want a guy who was responsible and secure in their 20s, they wanted a "bad boy" and wanted to party and fuck as many guys with abs as they could - and now they figure "OK now im ready to settle down" and they think their assets havent depreciated.

Finding a single woman who doesnt already have kids my age is a spectacular challenge - but im happier alone than raising somebody elses dick spawn. 10/10 hookers cost only $300/hour and are miles beyond worn out 30 year olds, it solves my biological need, I dont need anybody to try and control any part of my life when im fully independent.

Its a moral hazard.

The only person in a woman's life that isn't trying to hook up with her is her father. Everyone else has mixed motives.

Wait... Are you stalking through every female coworkers entire social media history?

That's creepy as hell bro.

I've probably nailed at least 30 chicks before I was 30 and there would be no way I could ever even list them, and I feel like I mad a good partner for marriage. The sexual partners thing is a weird metric. I'm more concerned if she ever cheated in relationships she was committed in. As long as you don't have diseases who cares.

This post was edited by Skinned on Jul 21 2021 01:19pm

Women bond emotionally through sex. Oxytocin is an addictive drug and women have to detox for about two years after having serious intimacy. That's why you see so many women with abusive men. They are chemically addicted.

Modern women have rebelled against marriage, jumping out of the frying pan and into the fire of hookup culture.

I'm not perfect either, but you should feel bad after damaging that many women.