Quote (thesnipa @ Jul 16 2021 09:42am)
thigh gaps are another thing men have idealized that's largely fake. like seal smooth skin or plump lips.
women dont have smooth skin, genetically, at all. it's like a 1 in a billion trait, not an "ideal body". instagram models are waxing their entire body from the ears down to appear like an ideal that isn't real.
thigh gaps are mostly women tucking up, or standing in an unnatural way to make it appear. or like you said are 14 year old boy body chicks. aka gross.
it's the same mentality far too many young men have with sex in general stemming from the unnatural engagements they see in even the most vanilla porn. obviously hardcore fringe shit will lead anyone to desire unrealistic things in sexual engagements with the average woman, but even big studio standard porn leads men to desire some really unrealistic things from a partner. the day a buddy told me he only watches amateur things was odd to me, i asked why, he said it's more realistic, i said who cares if they dont have as much makeup on etc. he corrected me, and said it actually creates a bridge between real life experiences and what you're viewing, and stops a strange disconnect he had when being with real women. i tried it and realized he was correct, it was an eye opener in my 20s. ive been clean off that garbo for years now, but it was a shift to be sure.
I'm the same way. I can't watch professional grade porn.
However, there's some really good stuff that has professionals which also has very minimal production quality. Makes it pretty good since they aren't made up to be ridiculous doll things, but still has good camera angles. Best of both worlds.
This post was edited by NetflixAdaptationWidow on Jul 16 2021 08:47am