Quote (InsaneBobb @ Mar 10 2021 02:45pm)
Ugh. Autistic children are a severe chore. I have nothing but sympathy for their parents, teachers, care providers, etc. Youngest brother is autistic. He was homeschooled. Broken home, here. Didn't grow up with my mother, but father instead. However, my brothers both raised by my mother, who was stay at home, while her second husband worked. She did alright with my little brothers. But her method of teaching, discipline, and reward did not vary between either of my brothers. Autistic was not an excuse to her. I tend to think, whenever possible, this is the best way. I'm fully aware it doesn't always work, but when it does or can, it should be utilized. The habit of today's parents to raise their children as "special" is insane. And the complete lack of any personal responsibility should be held against the stay at home parents your wife deals with specifically, not all stay at home parents of dual parent households. The "I'm paying you even though really it's my tax credits that're paying you" crowd that shirks any responsibility whatsoever for their own children is just not good.
my wife has a mother of her student this year, stay at home mom, SEVERE anger issues, screams to communicate, even with child on her lap for the ZOOM conference. angrily turned down materials to help her son progress at home in first meeting. 2nd meeting screamed that her sons anger issues werent getting better, with him on her lap, and screamed she was going to school to be an "autistic teacher" because my wife had failed her son. kid learns anger first hand is the way to act, she denies materials to help, then screams hes too angry and shes going to get a bachelors overnight to fix him.