Quote (Skinned @ May 20 2020 12:01pm)
Appearance is a lot to self esteem and how you're treated. America is also a shallow place. We hide our uggos and our elderly.
People I've met tend to be either happy about it or they won't talk about it. One patient i had was seriously traumatized by the surgery itself but it couldn't be brought up because it would be second guessing that decision, and that decision being right was very important for internal consistency...there was just no challenging it....
It was a priori.
I didn't circumsize my son because i didn't want to do anything to his body without his consent and he was fine the way he came to me. He can do that when he is 18 next year if he wants. Definitely not turning an inny into an outy or vice versa, or even breast implants.
The goal should first and foremost attempt to be comfortable in one's own skin. Body issues are a lot more common than we talk about IMO.
Interesting take. I don't know about "hiding" the elderly and ugly. Been to a Walmart lately? I mean, there's ugly people everywhere.
When you're talking the elderly who can no longer care for themselves, I don't know if "hiding" is the appropriate word. I mean, I see where you're coming from, but I'd point out that if a person requires around-the-clock care, and their children/grandchildren/etc. are working and simply don't have the time, care homes and such that're designed for that are often the best place for them. Leaving off for the moment the fact that many of those facilities have no standard and should be shut down, the "good ones" are great places to be, and often afford the elderly a chance to be around peers who they may otherwise never get to see if they were still at home.
I salute your decision regarding your son, and completely agree with "being comfortable in your own skin". I think some of the thought that you must "be attractive" is simply wrong. Like, if a person (through no medical excuse) allows themselves to become morbidly obese, or if they're dirty and unkempt, these are easily resolvable issues. Work out, be active, get off your ass and DO something. Bathe, shave, cut or style your hair. DO something to maintain your health and basic appearance. "Hot or Not" typically boils down to healthy or not.
Quote (thesnipa @ May 20 2020 12:05pm)
"all women are beautiful" said the 1m sub supermodel who lives in a bikini and wear's a mask of /4" thk. makeup, to thunderous applause.
Yeah, that shit's annoying as hell.
This post was edited by InsaneBobb on May 20 2020 02:27pm