Quote (thesnipa @ 3 Jul 2019 20:04)
progressive groups, trans groups especially, should adopt an acceptable bottom range of transphobia, aka the "non problematic zone". same as racism has. i find trans advocates FAR more prickly than race advocates. the average trans advocate reads to me like an extreme BLM member, it drives down people's perception of the movement as a whole. no one wants to get screamed at for incidental issues or even ones born out of acceptable ignorance. no one wants to get their heads bitten off for asking simple questions either. and it seems there's always a presumption of nefarious motivations for asking the question. in general there's a snarky presumption of nefarious motivation that many trans people have, likely from a lifetime of undue scrutiny.
I mean trans people are one of the most marginalised groups in society right now... And one of the most hated. Those who have the strength to speak out are met with a wall of hatred and vitriol. It's no wonder they'd be a bit prickly sometimes tbh.
It does get exhausting having to justify your existence day in day out... Especially when the Trump administration is hellbent on fucking them over. Trans people live in a society that is openly hostile to them.
I think people should absolutely ask questions. How else will they learn? I'm happy to have a civilised discussion about trans issues with just about anyone... And frequently do with some of the worst transphobes around. One of the 'benefits' of working to deradicalise white supremacists as a semi well-known trans person.
I think you're still applying this 'nefarious motivation' to the term 'transphobia'. There needs be no conscious malice for bigotry to manifest. Most bigotry is born from an irrational fear and a want to protect people. Like the scary black man who's gonna Rob you or the gay guy who might want to touch you, or your kids, up...
.. or the trans person who is hurting cis women by 'destroying and dominating their sports' or the trans ideologues who are indoctrinating children and cutting off the penises of 10 year olds.