Quote (Landmine @ Feb 18 2020 02:20pm)
I just quit posting for awhile. I've been posting since 06. This forum used to be more interesting. Nephi and inviction and a few others made this place a lot more interesting. There's no debate anymore, just two sides yelling at each other and both claiming victory.
i started posting in pard in like 2010ish, but only shitposting when i wasnt at 20%. started posting in more earnest in 2012, so i prob just missed your early days of posting and fit into your gap, giggity.
i think pard's biggest issue is many people play an archetype character as much or more than they express their own ideas. this by itself isnt an issue, but when they come up against a super serious poster incapable of rolling with the loose candor, memes, metaphors, etc. its just cringey to watch two people fail to connect.
its even worse when both are doing this in the same conversation in flux. one side jokes, the other side hungry for nonexistent points jumps on it and wastes a paragraph debunking a clear joke. and repeat ad nauseum. all of the fruitful discussions ive had here largely fall into one of two categories, 1) both parties equally joking, 2) both parties equally serious. sadly this rarely happens or if it does the 2 serious parties are just too far apart to even have a fruitful discussion.
i have no doubts that my centrism is mainly due to my want to constantly play the other side, but an advantage is that i can both joke and be serious with just about anyone. and the worst case scenario is we agree to disagree amicably. there are really only a VERY small number of posters i just cant "get there" with. o well.