Quote (balrog66 @ Sep 27 2018 02:34pm)
Not really related but still kinda:
We have a group of friends where we cut a guy out (was always a friendly guy, not an agressive drunk or anything), cold turkey. At a houseparty of mine, that guy did something we thought was way over the line. He was incredibly drunk and and trying to make out with our female housemate, who instead of fight or flight, just froze. I pulled him away and her into one of our rooms. He got booted instantly.
Do you think our actions were warranted?
Yes
I've had to cut close friends out before because of behavior changes due to drink/drug
You can always let someone back in but you never want to be in a position where you kept someone posing a threat around and something happens