Quote (Thor123422 @ Sep 14 2019 12:45pm)
Two parent households are capable of neglect as well.
If you dont want kids neglected then theres no reason to tacitly imply single mothers are necessarily neglecting their kids.
Single parent households are not good.
Higher chance of less resources for child to be raised well.
Almost certainty that child will have less emotional attention since one parent has to maintain that burden themselves.
Boys growing up without male role models is a an ingredient in most of the MRAs that we see nowadays.
The things above also increase chance to commit crimes as well.
It's a very tough pill to swallow but the reality is that being a single parent is going to be neglect on some level. You just have to accept that reality and minimize the damage. Probably first start by maybe hoping the father isn't a deadbeat and that he's involved to release that burden which is probably most important.
As for the main OP topic , shaming doesn't solve anything. People as a whole just make bad decisions. Brains don't full develop into your early 20s and for some people they never really develop :).
This post was edited by sir_lance_bb on Sep 14 2019 01:13pm