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Sep 14 2019 10:45am
Quote (duffman316 @ Sep 14 2019 11:27am)
Child neglect is and that's what I strongly suspect in these cases


Two parent households are capable of neglect as well.

If you dont want kids neglected then theres no reason to tacitly imply single mothers are necessarily neglecting their kids.

This post was edited by Thor123422 on Sep 14 2019 10:45am
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Of course many single mothers are going to party and look for dates. It's instinctive for female humans to search for a partner that can help raise and protect her offspring. It's not necessarily something that contradicts her natural role as a mother. Perhaps her social role (depending on the culture she belongs to), but not her natural role. And if she perceives there is no conflict between her motherly instincts, the natural decision will be to, consciously or unconsciously, look for a partner.

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To be clear it isn't so much their dating behaviour but the complete disregard for the well being of their children that concerns me. With how highly available birth control is I'd think that girls that want to sleep around shouldn't be spawning fatherless kids along the way.


Not only are they not ashamed. They are proud and try to paint themselves as heroes.

Our culture really would benefit from shaming them.
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Sep 14 2019 10:48am
Quote (duffman316 @ Sep 14 2019 06:34pm)
Whataboutism aside what are your thoughts on the topic


It's a scared delusion by a load of insecure men. That's what I make of it.

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Sep 14 2019 01:11pm
Quote (Thor123422 @ Sep 14 2019 12:45pm)
Two parent households are capable of neglect as well.

If you dont want kids neglected then theres no reason to tacitly imply single mothers are necessarily neglecting their kids.


Single parent households are not good.

Higher chance of less resources for child to be raised well.

Almost certainty that child will have less emotional attention since one parent has to maintain that burden themselves.

Boys growing up without male role models is a an ingredient in most of the MRAs that we see nowadays.

The things above also increase chance to commit crimes as well.

It's a very tough pill to swallow but the reality is that being a single parent is going to be neglect on some level. You just have to accept that reality and minimize the damage. Probably first start by maybe hoping the father isn't a deadbeat and that he's involved to release that burden which is probably most important.

As for the main OP topic , shaming doesn't solve anything. People as a whole just make bad decisions. Brains don't full develop into your early 20s and for some people they never really develop :).

This post was edited by sir_lance_bb on Sep 14 2019 01:13pm
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Sep 14 2019 01:24pm
In a society where raising a child is possible even if you are single, it will happen.
Only beta-cuck males are complaining about single mothers, it's a natural process: swallow the red pill and stop crying like babies.

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Quote (Saucisson6000 @ 14 Sep 2019 15:24)
In a society where raising a child is possible even if you are single, it will happen.
Only beta-cuck males are complaining about single mothers, it's a natural process: swallow the red pill and stop crying like babies.


I don't think this is a very valid/convincing argument/view.
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Sep 14 2019 01:36pm
Quote (ChrisKz @ 14 Sep 2019 21:29)
I don't think this is a very valid/convincing argument/view.


It's not "my view"; this is reality, this is a natural process, and if you don't like it then establish new laws forcing genetical paternity testing and ban the divorce.
Remove right from women to have a child without being married, establish sharia law.

You "don't like" but you don't have the balls to write here what you want to be done ?

On a side note the amount of single parents getting together is probably increasing too, and the single parent curb will slow down and get flat at some point.

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Sep 14 2019 01:50pm
Quote (sir_lance_bb @ Sep 14 2019 03:11pm)
Single parent households are not good.

Higher chance of less resources for child to be raised well.

Almost certainty that child will have less emotional attention since one parent has to maintain that burden themselves.

Boys growing up without male role models is a an ingredient in most of the MRAs that we see nowadays.

The things above also increase chance to commit crimes as well.

It's a very tough pill to swallow but the reality is that being a single parent is going to be neglect on some level. You just have to accept that reality and minimize the damage. Probably first start by maybe hoping the father isn't a deadbeat and that he's involved to release that burden which is probably most important.

As for the main OP topic , shaming doesn't solve anything. People as a whole just make bad decisions. Brains don't full develop into your early 20s and for some people they never really develop :).


Same can be said for having a second child.
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