Then now is the time to reconsider that membership. EU is probably worse than Russia so its really a choice of lesser evil. Ukraine faces its lands being seized by Russia, significant depletion of its young/working population and now you are suggesting they accept an influx of foreign rapists and religious fanatics to add to the fire. At that rate Ukraine better do a 180 and join forces with Russia/BRICS instead.
But you aren't killing two birds with one stone here just thowing stones.
Its not my job to tell the Ukrainian people what is in their own interests. The majority of Ukrainian voters agreed with what you said, and in a democracy that's what we'd go with. But once again, we're talking about the EU, not about
democracy. Sovereignty and self-determination are outdated concepts for some antiquated age. Did you miss the part where the separatist regions of the DPR/LPR/Crimea all voted democratically for independence after their government was overthrown, then voted democratically to join Russia? Nobody cares. The west simply waved a magic wand and said those votes were illegal and don't count. They were doing it before Trump made it cool on January 6th.
Ukraine will do what they are told because they have no choice. Ukrainians
already have no choice, that's why their men are dead and their women are in german brothels.