Quote (Black XistenZ @ Dec 1 2023 10:46am)
Well, most people don't do anything of greater consequence with their lives, and will be forgotten by the time their grandchildren have died. So if your standard for relevancy is "people whose impact on the world will be remembered", then almost no one meets it, including the vast majority of people who did have kids... while there's plenty of noteworthy examples of childless people who satisfy this condition.
Simply put, "people without kids shouldn't have opinions" is a conclusion that doesn't logically follow from the premise of "why should we listen to anyone whose existence is temporary".
imo no. having kids means you can pass on generational norms. you may not be a twin of your great grandfather, but there's plenty of things you do and think just because of your familial norms. i was lucky to know several of my great grand parents, so they directly influenced me. but even if they hadn't ive been very well influenced by my grand parents, who are the way they are largely due to their parents. my great grand mother went to college in the 1920s, a rarity for the time, and as a result her kids and 8 grand kids are all college educated. a very rare thing for a rural illinois farming family.
these kind of influenced take a long time to wash out. this is evident in all kinds of things, good and bad, but one good example is the rural and black communities' lower standard for importance of education, when that is a very dated idea that directly hurts their communities on the whole.
whereas if you're just a person, and you die, once your friends also die 99% of your influence is likely gone. you're lucky if you have influence on your friend's kids, but even so its usually nominal compared to a parent's influence.
edit: beyond that my first post was clearly shitposting. but there's a there there.
This post was edited by thesnipa on Dec 1 2023 10:55am