Quote (excellence @ 3 Jun 2018 00:38)
we are on the same page here - although living expenses are still costs many have to pay. not everyone can “live at home” or be a RA, for example
with that said college is not some inconsequential cost for your average 17-18 year old even if you start by going to a state school or community for 2 years. and not everyone gets to putz around at a snail’s pace to graduate. then again not all of us (me and yourself included) are privileged aristocracy
You have to be smart about college. You can't just up and go right out of high school if you aren't prepared. You will just meet dead ends and deadlines you do't' want to meet, classes you don't want to go to and expectations that you also can't and don't watn to meet.
Room and board, food and other expenses are living expenses in general. You are paying them, or at least somebody is, even if you are living at home with your parents.
Rather than being a meta child and going directly into college as soon as you graduate high school, you could figure out what you want to do. Work part or full time for 2 years and establish a work ethic, some pocket money and possibly more self-assurance.
I grew more when I was 21-23 than from 14-20.