Quote (EndlessSky @ Oct 17 2021 03:51pm)
Satan is indeed persuasive. Pride is easy to conceal as well, even for women.
The problem is less that 20% of millenials are getting married. I prefer to use arguments instead of spewing vitriol. 80% is too large to be men’s fault.
Its definitely the fault of social media exploiting our basic human urges.
Modern dating looks a lot more like women lined up outside of a night club - where the night club is an attractive, very rich and powerful man. And the vast majority of men are also sitting outside of the club, trying to scalp whatever woman they can from the line up. In the end, a man might get lucky and date one of these women, but as soon as that bouncer approaches her and says she's in - you'd best believe that she is highly likely to go in, leaving that man behind.
We simply do not value monogamy anymore and have instead chosen hypersexuality and profit. Most women are perfectly happy to wait their turn to be used by "chad" - just on the off chance that they *might* be able to lock him down; hence the bad boy cliche. Add to that the level of narcissism that most women carry with them today; not only are they willing to be used as a playtoy by "chad," but would actually prefer that to settling for the so-called normal guy. In other words, getting used by chad is considered living the high life by a lot of their standards, which says a lot about how far we've fallen as a society.
And the truth is that its always been like this, but religion kept it under control. If a woman was caught doing what modern women do today - in the past, she would have been whipped and probably exiled from her family. It was simply more socially and financially beneficial to find and be devoted to a man (Who tended to be the bread winner in those days.) What we're seeing from women now is just a natural adaptation to the new reality of having unmitigated freedom to do whatever they please. It remains unclear if this will be a good or a bad thing for men in the long term, but it is definitely proving to be terrible for women's mental health.
This post was edited by LoverManGenius on Oct 17 2021 04:08pm