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There's a lot thats true here mixed with a bit of Red Pill opinions.
You post more red pill content than me. I've just stated the current state of the dating market

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Secondly, women's incomes are higher and more of them have a bachelor's degree. This not only makes them delay their search for marriage but also often stops it entirely. Why get married when you have your own income now, and you still have access to desperate men?
Not really true, both working men and women aren't stupid. We both know life is hard. Both are looking for people who can take care of themselves => functional adults. Most fail even at that, I am talking about both genders. Men are judged harder because the man has to play the role of the provider when children are small. Of course, you can't live off from a single income forever, neither gender is that stupid. Bachelor's degree in gender sciences following working in McDonald's with no way to pay back student loan isn't worth anything. The income is more important. Men choose high income jobs with long hours. You can guess why.
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Thirdly, women have always been hypergamous. Young women have always been more likely to date someone who is older if they offer that financial security and a clean look. If this last part is the biggest factor, men just have to get rich and wait until they are older.
There are women, a lot of them, who are genuinely looking for a long-term relationship. Dating apps by design are made the way that young guys leave them as soon as possible. Most of the time, women aren't even aware that they're all dating or sleeping with the same guys

And yeah, those players are the older ones with enough money.
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Fourthly, women will compare every man they meet with the best man they have ever met (even though the women weren't good enough or that man wasn't interested in marriage). This level of high expectations can only lead to failure for a lot of men.
That part isn't that problematic. You can tell them off, you're the best they could keep

Being pump and dumped over and over for no reason from their point of view even though they try to be nice, committed and invest emotionally leaves them devastated because they meet the same players who'll leave anyways (they project it on all men, of course). It's quite sad actually. Then, when they meet someone who is genuinely interested in them, they'll put up rules, mistrust at every corner, some fishy standards, everything which makes a trusting relationship impossible. They may even get mad at you for things they expect you to do from their shitty experiences in advance (I had that with a sexy liberal PHD in biology woman, she was very smart)

That's why the older the women are the harder it gets for a proper long-term relationship. Again, either you meet early and grow up together into the relationship or you just have to do with a young girl who wants to be committed.
This post was edited by babun1024 on Dec 11 2024 11:02am