Quote (InsaneBobb @ Feb 2 2021 04:03am)
What's the point?
The larger point is to share more substantive information and have better conversations. The specific point would depend on the individual and the conversation that you're having. Here is a hypothetical example of how it might go in the case of one person:
--Let's say there's a conversation that includes a staunch pro-choicer (Jill) and a woman who has had an abortion (Mary). Jill says she supports a woman's right to choose. Mary tells the story of her abortion.
--Mary says how she went to a health care professional unsure of what she wanted to do. After a conversation, she walked out of the room with an appointment for an abortion later and ended up getting it. After the whole process was over, she looked back on the conversation and now feels that she had been "talked into it". Mary was emotional and got a lot of fancy jargon from a charismatic guy in a fancy suit who showed her all kinds of pictures and warned about how dangerous it could be to have a baby. Afterwards, Mary realized that the facility had a financial incentive to lead her to that "choice". Mary argues, from experience, that as long as there is a system in place to manipulate vulnerable women and lead them toward a particular "choice", that the system we have isn't in line with Jill's main value, which is for women to choose.
--If Jill doesn't believe that the clinic's financial incentive existed, then she would be less able to understand Mary's perspective. But if both participants are able to mutually agree on the fact that some people might be pushing for more abortions (as though they are a good thing), that can help them have a better conversation. Obviously, a similar situation could happen in reverse. I've seen stories of clinics who are manipulating woman
out of getting an aborted that they wanted. I don't want anyone to take my example and act like I'm being one-sided about it.
Obviously that's just a simple example. But in general, if we could iron out the facts of the situation we would be able to have better conversations. If Mary had instead talked to someone who claims "People with Viewpoint A don't actually exist" then it would be hard to talk to that person further because they can't agree on the barebones facts of the situation.
This post was edited by Kayeto on Feb 2 2021 03:42am