Quote (EndlessSky @ Dec 11 2024 04:23am)
What about the 60-30 divide?
That one seems to be the funniest. It low-key implies that two women are unknowingly in a relationship with the same man.
It's actually. In a big city, you're pretty much left with online dating. Other ways to approach a woman you'd like to pursue have become really problematic for legal and social reasons.
When mem join online dating apps at a young age mostly, they're mosty ignored by a bigger portion of female population, about 80% unless they're good looking, well built and rich from the very start. They try hard and struggle sometimes for a year or so until they totally give up on dating apps.
Enter your average girl who'll look above average between 15 - 27 with some makeup. They're instantly flooded with personal messages from all sides. Of course, if you have the choice, you'll pick the best from the list = mostly the same playboy every other woman picks. These guys sleep around with almost all good looking women. Even women who are really romantic and want relationships become bitter and resentful towards all men. At around 27 when they are finished their degrees and their lives have normalized they give up dating apps more or less "to settle down" but there is no platform to reach those guys they ignored prior. The really hot ones are still going to find a simp to marry them only to divorce some years later because he wouldn't compare to the combined features of the 100 guys+ she had slept prior with. The average ones will look, well, bellow average. They struggle until 30 when they hit the wall then try it with younger guys. Those guys are in no position to marry at that point of their life. They pass the older ones around.
The over 30y women flock over every financially eglible bachelor over 30 (seen myself

). These guys think they are something special, enter dating apps again find out that women mostly answer to their perainal messages. Of course, they can pick as well and they'll pick the younger ones between 18-27. At least, some of them find ling-time partners this way.
So basically, unless you learn your significant one very early in life and you grow together, it's best to postpone any marriage plans until you are a 30+ male whale on the dating market and a pick a very young girl. On the other sise, it is the young girl who doesn't jump at first opportunity into the bed with a stranger ( true conservative women) which comes from proper upbringing from a household with both parents.
Last tip, always try to get to know your girl's mother. You'll gg insights from that.
This post was edited by babun1024 on Dec 11 2024 01:37am