Quote (Thor123422 @ Oct 19 2020 09:20am)
If the "pronoun identity" is that important maybe we could... I dont know... Call people by their preferred pronouns and not say theyre mentally ill and harming society by asking for it.
i find pronoun identity important, but as im in the NORMAL binary, i dont need to explain mine. i couldnt, but im 6'3" tall and 240 lbs, i dont think anyone would mistake me for a woman or feel i should explain my male identity. again, i could.
if you're trans and you pass then no worries, no one should mistake you. if you're trans and you pass, but still want some odd pronoun, u have to tell people and may need to explain a bit. if u have some wonky pronoun, expect people to use it or "they" not to offend you before u even tell them, and refuse to explain anything. then you're a drama queen looking for attention. this tendency is likely driven by how hard ur life is, how hard its been to be mentally ill in your life and not have the body u want. still tho, fuck you. its fine to be damaged, just be realistic.
the trans civil rights movement has been a joke compared to black, gay, latino, jewish, etc etc etc. its not an easy road for anyone to be a minority group, but holy shit has it been a breeze for trans people comparatively. so much so that ive heard perhaps a half dozen gay men unhappy with the gap between their struggle and their complaints.