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Sep 18 2014 02:32pm
personally i'm in favor of flicking them on the nose or spraying them with water

or maybe get a laser pointer and get them to chase it around the house for a bit so they use up all their energy and have less issues with acting out
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Sep 18 2014 02:36pm
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personally i'm in favor of flicking them on the nose or spraying them with water

or maybe get a laser pointer and get them to chase it around the house for a bit so they use up all their energy and have less issues with acting out


I always feel bad for using a laser pointer with my cat because he keeps looking for it after I stop.
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Sep 18 2014 02:45pm
Quote (Mastersam93 @ Sep 18 2014 01:30pm)
I've posted it here before and I'm a phone so km not going to do it right now but research points to exactly what those dang liberals are saying, namely:
-spanking leads children to have trust issues
-spanking leads children to view violence as acceptable
-spanking often leads to full-blown abuse, accidentally or otherwise.


spanking is much more for the parent than it is for the child. Venting rage etc. lol
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Sep 18 2014 02:46pm
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spanking is much more for the parent than it is for the child. Venting rage etc. lol


Pretty much. One of the studies showed that's why so many parent who spank their kids also beat them. It starts with spanking then one time they get really angry and just beat the child.
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Sep 18 2014 03:00pm
Quote (RUSSiABANK @ Sep 18 2014 01:27pm)
outdated methods. Get with the psychology textbooks for learning alternative methods of guiding behavior which are not as ineffective and possibly have unintended side effects


You mean pump them full of ritalin and call it a day?
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Sep 18 2014 03:10pm
Quote (Goomshill @ Sep 18 2014 04:00pm)
You mean pump them full of ritalin and call it a day?


Til spanking or ritilin. There is no middle ground.
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Sep 18 2014 03:30pm
There has to be higher levels of punishment to elevate to if kids don't respond to less severe forms of correction.

No one wants to hurt their kids, but incentive to behave need to exist. As long as the wounds you give them will heal in a reasonable amount of time, they get more benefit that harm from corporal punishment.
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Sep 18 2014 04:03pm
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There has to be higher levels of punishment to elevate to if kids don't respond to less severe forms of correction.

No one wants to hurt their kids, but incentive to behave need to exist. As long as the wounds you give them will heal in a reasonable amount of time, they get more benefit that harm from corporal punishment.


If you're not smart enough to come up with a punishment that isn't physical pain, don't have kids.
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Sep 18 2014 04:15pm
I was spanked. As were my cousins. We are successful ppl of society now.
I will slap a bum if i have to when I have kids.

Read through the first few pages. I see no one has brought up canning? Which was done to ALL of your parents one time or another growing up in the school system of the olden days.

This post was edited by Subzer0isGG on Sep 18 2014 04:19pm
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I was spanked. As was my cousins.  We are successful ppl of society now.
I will slap a bum if i have to when I have kids.

Read through the first few pages. I see no one has brought up canning?  Which was done to ALL of your parents one time or another growing up in the school system of the olden days.


Nice anecdote.

Also, a lot of my parents generation are shitty people, what's your point?
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