Quote (Black XistenZ @ Sep 23 2018 08:38am)
he might have played down sexual violence a little, but he still raised a point which is supremely important, both for the Ford/Kavanaugh case and for society in general: sexual boundary crossings are not a binary thing, they exist in a continuum.
On a scale from 1 (groped someones ass or tits briefly) to 10 (violent gangrape that leaves the victim half-dead), what Kavanaugh is accused of here is a 2/10, maybe a 2.5/10. Minor sexual boundary crossings are happening millions of times everyday all around the world without any malicious intent and without causing lasting damage or even trauma to the victims. A guy at a party trying to kiss or feel up a girl who doesnt reciprocate is a common thing and mostly harmless if it stays at that.
Now, what Kavanaugh is accused of here is one notch above that, its a shitty and scumbaggy thing to do, and would include at least some degree of malicious intent - but even if true, it would still sit on the very lowest end of the things that could reasonable be called "attempted rape".
Most of us have done something shitty or scumbaggy to others when we were teens.This doesnt excuse the actions he's accused of if they are true, but imho it's still important to put it into perspective.
The question must be asked whether what Kav is accused of having done 35 years ago as a drunk and horny teen, even if true, would actually be bad enough to cast enough of a shadow on his personality and integrity to disqualify him from serving as a SCOTUS judge. I dont know my personal answer to this question tbh, but it is very much a question that has to be asked.
This is true but being a jerk or saying dumb things or getting into fights or hurting people's feelings is not covering a 15 year old girl's mouth while on top of her trying to remove her clothes
It's a serious violation of another person in this case a 15 year old girl which can cause her issues her entire life regarding males, sexuality, self esteem and worth it can lead to self harm and addiction and reckless behavior
it's enough to cause that and has caused that for many that escaped similar situations even if it doesn't seem that big to you
the fact that the right is so predictable when it comes to these discussions shows that the boys will be boys bullshit is still very strong in half the country a party that elected the pussy grabber wife rapist with excuses of boys will be boys and locker room talk
I have no idea if it happened but the accusation itself describes a serious abuse of another person and should not be minimized
If this preppy white conservative boy from money was replaced with a muslim or a black kid or an undocumented immigrant or a trans person or an antifa punk can you honestly say the minimizing would happen on your side?
because I'd say the same as ive said in this thread but I don't think many on your side would.
This post was edited by Beowulf on Sep 23 2018 10:11am