If you have been with somebody a week, no need to disclose yet if you aren't comfortable. If you're several months in, then yeah you probably should. But it's going to be a personal decision when that time is.

I would have to agree to disagree, I am not familiar with where you are from, America perhaps , it is still quite an uncomfortable situation in my country though.

in my country, not saying something like that IMMEDIATELY will get you beaten up real bad the only personal decision is how badly you want to get hurt, with severity of injuries being directly proportional to time passed before you said it

and i wouldnt want it any other way

Duh. And womens sprinting will always be slower than mens. High jump will always be men. Weight lifting will always be men. Notice you don’t see any female to male trans women breaking 70 year old records. Your chart only proves that understanding how bodies works can lead to tweaked performance, which of course. See that flat line there? That’s called a peak. See the line below it? That’s mens. Stop being a shill for hypothetical perceived oppression so you can spout your crazy nonsense about changing 99.9% of the world. You’re not a hero or champion you’re just pissing 99% of people off and thinking you’re still right. Maybe learn rendering software or read a book.

This post was edited by justhackitup on Apr 3 2022 10:35am

hm, i guess it really depends on how you met your partner and how you define "relationship". i always found the "dating" ritual that i observed through american media kind of weird. my own experience is very different in that i met my girlfriends through common interests (sports), at university, or through mutual acquaintances, meaning i've never uses any dating apps or services - i just imagine that if you did that, invested a lot of time, emotions, and maybe money into a relationship, only to find out later that your partner is a trans woman or man (and that's a complete deal-breaker for you), you'd be kind of disappointed in them and feel somewhat betrayed.

now i'm totally open to arguments as to why that might technically not be the case, this is just my personal opinion of course - but since sex is an important part of most romantic relationships, i feel like this is something that people should disclose early on, in order not to "mislead" their potential partners.

This post was edited by fender on Apr 3 2022 10:54am

Sorry you live in such a shitty place.

Since we're all giving unsolicited advice, how about you render your mouth around the barrel of a shotgun.

worth it

This post was edited by CheatEngine on Apr 3 2022 10:58am

And by "lead to tweaked performance" you mean "massive improvements". The records for both men and women are still trending downward. We will have to see how the future shakes out, but it's very much a possibility that women overtake men's records in the future as procedures get optimized.

There's another issue still dominating, and that's that men still have much easier access to individualized training than women because of the lack of overall scientific progress on women's sports. Women still aren't up to parity in support systems and still have a ways to go before we can say the playing field is truly level.

we got 99 problems but this aint one