Quote (Testiclese @ Sep 3 2019 10:33pm)
Ah, I was under the impression that you had many more, ready to fire off at a moment's notice.
Well that's a relief.
What can you tell me about the benefits of joining your movement? I have spoken with a lot of people, but I think you're my first MGTOW.
The most important one for me is the feeling that you have already solved an important problem in your life. That feeling provides an amazing freedom.
All the energy and time that we devote to maintaining our relationships when we have them (or to getting into one, when we don't have them), is now available for your projects.
The interactions with people, particularly with women, are now more free, lean, clean… They don't have anything that you want, so they don't really have anything to offer. Interactions with them are always honest and free. You see the person, and very soon you stop seeing the woman.
You value much more the time that you spend with friends (male and female). They are permanent references in your life and they are not subject to change or break-ups. In my case, most of those friendships.come from my teenage years and they are an important emotional support. I take better care of those friendships now.
You are free from the negative consequences of failed relationships, which are about 50% of the total. Marriage is a horrible investment for guys.
In any case, the questions should be formulated the other way around.
“What are the benefits of being in a relationship?”.
Each person has to look into that and make a decision. Some people (men and women)
make other people’s lives miserable and they shouldn’t be in any relationship whatsoever.
Some of us are better wired to be alone and feel that a relationship cannot really contribute much to improve our lives.