Quote (SunnyvaleTrailerPark @ Sep 18 2022 12:14pm)
Why have a partner and kids and be forced to one single lifestyle when i can do whatever i want daily on this planet. I live the ultimate freedom. Family+Kids lifestyle were made so you settle and forever live a life of consumerism with your family . Big house, 2 dogs, cars, kids expenses , wife expense, wedding expenses and so on. Fuck that shit. i'm 100% free and fuck when i want with who i want no strings.
consumerism is going to be with us until the heat death of the universe. it's all about managing that consumerism, which you can still do if you get married and have kids. however, i do agree kids are expensive. but i feel like your post post comes off as every woman is a gold digger. there's a lot of minimalistic and conservatives (frugal kind, not political) women out there. for example, i've been with my lady for over a year and she is vietnamese and her parents are really traditional. their culture is such a breathe of fresh air.
for example, for wedding expenses, one of my relatives had a private one at a church. costed basically nothing, in fact IIRC, think their church hosted it. you don't have to go all out on that stuff, there's frugal ways about it. but yeah, i really can't argue against kids are expensive, i bet they truly are. probably no way around that, haha.
This post was edited by ChocolateCoveredGummyBears on Sep 18 2022 02:08pm