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Jul 10 2021 11:50pm
You're not a guest if you're there for 30 days and don't life somewhere else. You just live there.

This isn't opinion.

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Jul 11 2021 12:07am
I would drag her outside and lock the door, end of story.
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Jul 11 2021 04:09am
LOL weak parasite. Even without using force I could just think of at least 10 creative ways to get her out.

This is just pathetic

Quote (Plaguefear @ Jul 11 2021 06:07pm)
I would drag her outside and lock the door, end of story.


she would overpower you end of story

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Quote (Plaguefear @ Jul 11 2021 02:07am)
I would drag her outside and lock the door, end of story.


The answer is to have good boundaries in the first place. That's the secret. You just don't invite dysfunctional bullshit into your house. "No you can't stay here but I will help with a hotel room". If you're close with this person you already know them, and if not you don't owe them.

Rights are an expectation to be treated a certain way, are things granted by the state, and often defy common sense.

I deal with this a lot with nursing homes wanting to dump bad citizens on us or landlords wanting the schizophrenic tenet out. "They can't come back here, we're scared". Well, they live there, you don't, it you're afraid then this isn't the business for you, do accounting. I don't care if you feel safe in the face of making my demented senior homeless.

Most landlords can abuse mentally ill people and there is nothing to be done about it because most mentally ill people don't have a me as a pitibull watching out for them.

Remember if your guests stay too long they cease being guests and just become residents. Most states 30 days. Smart nursing homes will dump their seniors on us at day 29 After 29 days of skilled rehab out of their 30 days allowable per medicare, which pays about 1k per day reimbursable. After that period it's like ~300 a day for long term care and they want someone profitable in their bed so they create a crisis, send to ER, and pretend they don't know them while their children are trying to figure out where their parents are.

This post was edited by Skinned on Jul 11 2021 07:10am
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Quote (Skinned @ 11 Jul 2021 09:03)
The answer is to have good boundaries in the first place. That's the secret. You just don't invite dysfunctional bullshit into your house. "No you can't stay here but I will help with a hotel room". If you're close with this person you already know them, and if not you don't owe them.

Rights are an expectation to be treated a certain way, are things granted by the state, and often defy common sense.

I deal with this a lot with nursing homes wanting to dump bad citizens on us or landlords wanting the schizophrenic tenet out. "They can't come back here, we're scared". Well, they live there, you don't, it you're afraid then this isn't the business for you, do accounting. I don't care if you feel safe in the face of making my demented senior homeless.

Most landlords can abuse mentally ill people and there is nothing to be done about it because most mentally ill people don't have a me as a pitibull watching out for them.

Remember if your guests stay too long they cease being guests and just become residents. Most states 30 days. Smart nursing homes will dump their seniors on us at day 29 After 29 days of skilled rehab out of their 30 days allowable per medicare, which pays about 1k per day reimbursable. After that period it's like ~300 a day for long term care and they want someone profitable in their bed so they create a crisis, send to ER, and pretend they don't know them while their children are trying to figure out where their parents are.

ok, but this is not the scenario in the video. its an able-bodied person taking advantage of someone elses kindness and just becoming a sloth that refuses to leave

and yes she (the woman who kindly let her “friend” stay) should have set boundaries. but good luck with her or many people who view this story going out of their way to lend a helping hand when this is the response they get to their kindness being abused

This post was edited by excellence on Jul 11 2021 08:13am
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Jul 11 2021 01:23pm
There clearly was boundaries though, they were just ignored.
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Quote (Skinned @ Jul 11 2021 09:03am)
The answer is to have good boundaries in the first place. That's the secret. You just don't invite dysfunctional bullshit into your house. "No you can't stay here but I will help with a hotel room". If you're close with this person you already know them, and if not you don't owe them.

Rights are an expectation to be treated a certain way, are things granted by the state, and often defy common sense.

I deal with this a lot with nursing homes wanting to dump bad citizens on us or landlords wanting the schizophrenic tenet out. "They can't come back here, we're scared". Well, they live there, you don't, it you're afraid then this isn't the business for you, do accounting. I don't care if you feel safe in the face of making my demented senior homeless.

Most landlords can abuse mentally ill people and there is nothing to be done about it because most mentally ill people don't have a me as a pitibull watching out for them.

Remember if your guests stay too long they cease being guests and just become residents. Most states 30 days. Smart nursing homes will dump their seniors on us at day 29 After 29 days of skilled rehab out of their 30 days allowable per medicare, which pays about 1k per day reimbursable. After that period it's like ~300 a day for long term care and they want someone profitable in their bed so they create a crisis, send to ER, and pretend they don't know them while their children are trying to figure out where their parents are.


we're not really talking about mentally ill/seniors

we're talking about squatters. big difference there.

most of which are lazy able bodied non-contributors who don't deserve their next breath.

This post was edited by Donahey on Jul 11 2021 01:33pm
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Quote (Plaguefear @ 11 Jul 2021 15:23)
There clearly was boundaries though, they were just ignored.

oh i meant a notarized and signed contractual document. the binding word between people means nothing now sadly
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Jul 11 2021 02:43pm
Property owners should have every right to kick anyone off of their property for any damn reason. You should be allowed 1 warning and if you don’t leave you shouldn’t be protected legally from being shot dead if the owner feels like they want to. Honestly getting rid of shitty people who squat can only make this world a better place. They didn’t take the risk of investment (most likely the biggest investment in a lifetime), the owner did and they should have every right to defend it however they see fit after 1 verbal warning.

This post was edited by UmadLoL on Jul 11 2021 02:45pm
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Jul 11 2021 02:58pm
If economy crashes I expect this to become more normal
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