Quote (balrog66 @ Aug 11 2019 08:12am)
I get it more now.
Do you think these aspects play a (significant) role in this?
- Helicopter parenting
- No major war going on (people with violent thoughts would maybe tend towards joining army)
- More strictly enforced social standards due to the internet policing
Just spitballing here, and interested in your thoughts.
Helicopter parenting is one reason..
Nurture Shock is an excellent book whose theme is "we've been too nice to kids and its backfired" as far as setting expectations super high and telling them how special they are all the time etc.
Parents are one agent of socialization.
These freedoms because a problem when mixed with individuals who were heavily socialized on the internet.
Think young individuals with access to hardcore pornography and actual videos of people dying. I don't want to do the "in my day" thing but in my day we had to bury playboys on the woods and take turns looking at it, and if you got a faces of death tape that shot was shocking and impossible to get through. These things affect people negatively....if either of us started consuming these regularly we would become worse people this is a fact, and we are developed brains with static personalities.... now compare us to the developing brain still forging those neural pathways and still developing a personality....that stuff is now built right in. This is a major factor in the etiology of this.
Also television writing is lazy and relies on sex for humor all the time. Even shows about nerds are misogynist....if you're a awkward autistic guy and television tells you that you should have a hot chick anyway but in RL Stacy if fucking Chad you're going to internalize that shit watching it day in and day out.
This problem will not be solved any time soon be is nobody is actually thinking about it in any meaningful way, in terms of public discourse.
Psyche and society are similar and we have been using some pretty maladaptive coping skills and defense mechanisms. I think a dressing agents of socialization is going to be the solution. That and dealing with the humans who are already broken.
Conservatives here may take me saying agents of socialization
and compare it eroding tradition and the homosex agenda; they are wrong. There have always been gay people and it has never been a problem for society. Only a fool would say that this stuff is a teleological consequence of that.
This post was edited by Skinned on Aug 11 2019 06:33am