My dowload goes faster then my update in the box and i can never play game it always like installs these things then closes RoM then brings it back up?

Must have a few updates

If u just downloaded game for first time, there are more than 1 patch that is has to update. It does 1 at a time, closes, reopens and does next patch.

yup and depending on your comp/internet connection it could take a while