I need hints for:
What race thing i should start (kind a mage pls)
What is things what i should practise first (buttons, quests weapons make money, etc)
and IF there are some1 nice player what would give even one medium item?
and yes

im asking: can i wear 19lvl weapon like if i am 5lvl?

you can wear only up to your level.

mage goes well with preist secondary.

practice quests and learn about daily quests. this game is really a quest grind, then dungeon party grinds higher levels.

i suggest you go
mage priest

it's easy to farm with
you dont spend a whole bunch of gold on pots/repairing equippment
it's fairly fun to play
and later on it's quite good for pvp

I prefer Evles has my Race

Thx to all answered and hints given. ill try mage priest then.