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Apr 1 2018 12:09pm
innocent kids? more like little shits :o
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Apr 1 2018 12:15pm
Quote (Knoppie @ 1 Apr 2018 13:54)
/e alright. I'll rephrase that, hmm, do you think it effected your relationship with your parents, or your children ?


I'm not sure. I don't 100 percent recall how I felt back then and only have the 'in the moment' memories in my mind, do you get what I'm saying?

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Quote (ChrisKz @ Apr 1 2018 07:15pm)
I'm not sure. I don't 100 percent recall how I felt back then and only have the 'in the moment' memories in my mind, do you get what I'm saying?


Somewhat.. though.. emotional memory goes a bit further than exact memory, these things tend to either distance you from your family or be more open towards them. Something to be visible in your relationship now.

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Apr 1 2018 12:20pm
Quote (Happypuppy @ Apr 1 2018 06:31pm)
Stop trying to force your parenting opinions on others
How people raise their kids is their personal business

That’d be like trying to tell people if they can or can’t have abortions, have sex marriages, commit suicide, have sex changes, own guns, etc
It’s all personal choices and everybody has the right to do what they want. If you control it you’re communist


:mellow:

From the moment your choice directly affects somebody else, it's no longer a "personal" choice and is definitely subject to regulation.

As a parent, you have a legal obligation to raise your children in a somewhat decent manner. Intentionally neglecting to do that is illegal and should be illegal.
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Apr 1 2018 12:33pm
If spanking is abuse then time-out is illegal detainment.

Spanking CAN be abuse if it's done in such a way that it causes permanent physical damage to the child, but it's not abuse.

I agree though that there are better and more effective ways to punish a child, but abuse it is not.
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Apr 1 2018 12:40pm
Quote (Knoppie @ 1 Apr 2018 14:18)
Somewhat.. though.. emotional memory goes a bit further than exact memory, these things tend to either distance you from your family or be more open towards them. Something to be visible in your relationship now.


Pretty open with my family if that is what you are asking
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Apr 1 2018 12:50pm
Quote (ChrisKz @ Apr 1 2018 07:40pm)
Pretty open with my family if that is what you are asking


Then they've used spanking in a very moderate and somewhat fair manner. It is possible, yet I'd rather avoid it due to the risk of escalating, with the higher impulses needed for the same effect.
There are different methods out there. And the hint that physical domination is the ultimate punishment or resolve, is something I'd not want to teach my child.

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martinet




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many supermarkets in France have stopped selling the martinet, even in the pet section.


Embarrassing.

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Quote (Saucisson6000 @ Apr 1 2018 11:50am)


Looks like something my girlfriend asked me to hit her with.
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Apr 1 2018 01:27pm
Leaving marks is abusive.


Quote (BardOfXiix @ Apr 1 2018 02:00pm)
Looks like something my girlfriend asked me to hit her with.


Kinky. I love it.

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