Quote (thesnipa @ Dec 16 2017 04:58pm)
thing is century old norms dont factor into a modern man's actions. it doesnt matter if dudes were allowed to didle teens in 1888, its 2016. he knows its wrong, because he lives and was raised entirely in the now. this isnt an episode of Outlander. historical norms are nothing but a side note once the actual conversation has gone stale, not a key point in this case.
As i said he is obviously in the wrong for doing what he did nor am i justifying his actions, i just don't think these type of scenarios are the same as actual pedophilia and the way these discussions are being framed it's definitely as if there's no difference between a guy banging a 17 year old or him banging a 8 year old. Being attracted to a sexually mature 17 year old is not out of the ordinary. I'm still in my 20s, if i'm walking down the street and see a girl with a fat ass i might turn my head. Let say she turns out to be 16-17 am i a pedophile for checking her out? No, that's pretty fucking dumb because she has adult features that make her appealing.
In college my one criminal justice professor was an assistant District Attorney and used to tell us horror stories of young guys going out clubbing and fucking a 16-17 year old and getting hit with rape charges. He's like i feel bad for the guys but it's the law and we have to charge them.