In order to find a guy. I really don't think my standards are excessive, I mean I just want the guy to be Nordic looking and smart. But there are very few men like that where I live. I am willing to wait for the right one but it's been so long.

Maybe you just need to get out a bit more.



But you said they are very few men like that where you live. In what way are you looking for them?

I look for men through work. Work is the chief way I get to meet men. I don't go clubbing or go to bars and I don't use online dating, either.

But didn't you say that your job wasn't that great? Might not be the kind of environment for you to look in.

You'd have to branch out and would probably need a phone for once. No need to go clubbing or to bars but you'd have to pursue hobbies where you physically meet people.

If you don't have those, you'd have to think about what interests you and pursue that.

Could still go for online dating. You'd get dates but you would have to weed out a lot that are only interested in a sexual relationship.

This post was edited by diablo_nostalgia on Feb 23 2023 07:35pm

You are right, however my hobbies are all pretty solitary. Posting online, reading, writing...etc. The only thing that's slightly more social is going to coffee houses. But I have never met anybody. Men just don't seem to want to talk to me. And I am not ugly, either. I mean I am not hot, I would say I am pretty average looking.

Should try walking up to guys and initiate the conversation instead
Both sides avoid this fearing rejection but if neither do it,it will never happen

You mean like cold approach? I am not brave enough for that. The most I'd do is approach guys I already know to some degree, ie, guys I work with.

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The man has slain so much Vag in his time , there’s barely any left for the rest of us

I’m Greek and stupid

This guys way off lol

If you're in your twenties you can try a community college. Don't even need a high school degree for that and there's a lot of decent people.

Otherwise you can be like those really hot girls with ass and walk around crowded cities.